You've heard it again and again... "the key to a good marriage is good communication," but what does that actually mean? What is "good" communication and can you change? Well the thing about communication is that it takes two. It's easy to think it's all abou the way you convey a message but it's just as important that the message is received correctly. Because we all grow up in different situations we all learn how to communicate differently. Some say to make sure that you communicate so that you can be understood, but in reality the goal should be:
to communicate so clearly that we could not be misunderstood.
Learning to decode is more important than decoding. When we actively listen and truly understand what the other person is trying to say than it is much easier to respond appropriately.
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